Most recently, I laughed my butt off at answers gay men gave in an online social media group as to why they prefer staying single.Īs you might have guessed, reason 3 birthed this article-partially to humor others besides myself, and also to shine a light on how similar gay men are to the rest of the world, even if the rest of the world won't admit it.I spend a better part of my professional life coaching gay men through various aspects of their dating and mating adventures.I'm a gay man, though I never had many of the thoughts I'm about to share with you.A group of scientists suggested Tuesday that homosexuals get that. Notice I didn't qualify the word reasons with any superlatives (like 'good' or 'bad') I simply stated that gay men have reasons they prefer to stay single. Scientists may have finally solved the puzzle of what makes a person gay, and how it is passed from parents to their children. Ironically, gay men, like heterosexuals and lesbians, have reasons why they prefer to stay single. Truth is, falling in love doesn't stop life from sucking, nor does it mean a gay man's oral skills need to suffer or go out of style.
